Category: Planning

  • 10 Questions You Need To Ask Your Caterers…

    10 Questions You Need To Ask Your Caterers…

    Choosing the right caterer is a key part of your big day. Alongside ‘the dress’ and is he ‘the one’ it’s right up there as one of the most important decisions you will make.

    From what type of catering you need to numbers, budgets and special dietary requirements – choosing the right caterer can be an absolute minefield. With that in mind we caught up with the multi-award winning and super-lovely events guru herself, Kim Maher, from Cheeky Chilli Catering & Events, to find out the do’s and don’ts when organising a fabulous feast…

    ‘The most important thing is to gather as much information as you can from your caterer,’ said Kim. ‘Ask lots of questions and ask around amongst family and friends as word of mouth recommendation is as good as it gets.’

    ‘I would always recommend asking the following before making any decisions about who to use for your big day.

    Do they do set packages? What are the menu’s like?

    A lot of caterers only offer set packages which can be quite restrictive. At Cheeky Chilli we offer a fully bespoke package which means we can build a menu that totally suits your vision and is within budget.

    If the caterer only does packages, ask if there is any flexibility within this – for example, you may want to drop the dessert and add a cheese course if you prefer savoury.

    Timings & deadlines

    It’s really important to agree a time line with your caterers. You need to pin down the date that they will need final numbers to allow for any last-minute cancellations, additions or menu changes. We like to give our couples as much time as possible to make their final food choices and are as flexible as possible when it comes to final numbers and table plans but its good to know the time lines up front so you can build it into your planning.

    Do they specialise in certain types of food?

    These days the sky is literally the limit for wedding food. Forget dried up chicken breasts in watery gravy – couples today want exciting food that really matches their personal tastes. From relaxed street food style feasts and on-trend grazing platters to beautifully instagrammable afternoon teas and inventive taster menus, you need your caterer to create your perfect menu.

    Special dietary requirements

    Veggie, vegan, gluten-free, no-carbs! Dietary requirements these days can be as varied as your guests. Just because they are having something different doesn’t mean they should miss out on taste. With so many food allergies and nutritional trends out there it’s important that your caterer embraces this and goes all out for guests who require something a little bit different.

    Do they have references?

    There is nothing like a recommendation to give you that extra bit of confidence in your suppliers. As well as checking out their Google and Facebook reviews you should also ask them for testimonials from previous clients. At the end of the day a caterer is only as good as their last job and you need to make sure that they won’t let you down on the big day and that your guests will remember the food (for good reasons) for years to come.

    Do you get a tasting?

    Tasting your menu before the big day is absolutely key. We include a full taster session for 2 people in every event package. Not only does this allow you to tweak and fine tune your choices it also helps take the stress away when you know you are 100% happy with your food. Definitely ask your caterer if they provide this – at no extra charge of course!

    What about the ‘extras’

    Make sure your caterer is clear about any additional costs for ‘extras’. At Cheeky Chilli we provide everything to do with the actual meal and service, such as plates, napkins, silverware, salt & pepper shakers as standard but some caterers do charge extra for this.

    Obviously if you are having an outdoor wedding in a marquee / tent or are getting married in an alternative venue you will have to pay extra for things like a pop-up kitchen and tables and chairs if you need them. Just make sure these types of additional costs are clear from the get-go.

    Does the catering come ‘full service’

    Make sure that all the staff and service costs are included in your quote. Also if you need a full event package make sure your caterers do the full set-up, bar service and clear up too as sometimes this does not come as standard.

    Who will oversee the big-day

    At Cheeky Chilli we allocate all of our couples their very own events manager. That means you have one point of contact throughout your journey from start to finish. 99.9% of the time your event manager will be there to oversee the day itself but in extraordinary circumstances, such as illness one of our senior team will be able to step in as they will be 100% up to speed with the running order and intricacies of the day.

    What if we change our minds

    Most caterers have a cut off of 2-6 weeks before the event for any last-minute changes. If you have to cancel for any reason you will probably lose your deposit which is a good reason to consider purchasing wedding insurance before the event. We always try and be as flexible as possible with our couples but planning super-early is always a good idea.

    To find out more about Cheeky Chilli Catering & Events contact the team today on:

    0151 352 3469

    www.cheekychillievents.co.uk

  • Meet The Wedding Planner – Dale Alexander

    Meet The Wedding Planner – Dale Alexander

    We catch up with one of the region’s most celebrated Wedding & Events planner and find out what drives his super-creative approach to delivering exceptional events…

    Detail driven, passionate and insanely creative, its no wonder Dale Alexander is one of the region’s most sought after wedding planners….

    With a career spent working in five star venues,  alongside some of the industry’s most acclaimed suppliers, Dale has planned and delivered hundreds of weddings – all unique and all totally unforgettable

    When you first meet Dale you are struck by his fun, easy going manner. Full of smiles and brimming with enthusiasm, he just lives and breathes weddings. Hardly surprising then that he seems to stay in touch with all of his couples and counts many of them as personal friends.

    We caught up with him , mid lockdown 2, in between his last two exciting assignments;  two exquisite micro-weddings for couple’s who decided love could not wait!

    So Dale tell us your story. How did you first get into weddings?

    “I began my career as a Luxury Wedding Planner in the boutique 5 star hospitality industry and eventually gravitated towards exclusive, private wedding venues overseeing all their events and heading up the customer relations. Function. Over the years, I learnt a great deal about the principles of great customer service, planning and event management. I am incredibly passionate about planning and managing events – it’s what I do best and I can’t really see myself doing anything else!”

     

    We know you plan all kinds of events but what do you love about weddings in particular?

    “Everything! I love hearing the stories of  how the couples met, getting to know them, understanding their vision and then making it happen. What could be more magical than helping couples celebrate the most important day of their lives? For me it’s all in the detail – I love nothing more than adding a few extra special Dale touches and then watching all the guests have the time of their lives and make wonderful memories.”

    So what is your secret?

    I think my number one secret weapon is the incredible suppliers I work with. Throughout my years in the industry I’ve had the privilege of working with some immensely talented professionals. The guys I work with are at the top of their game and from cakes to flowers, décor to lighting and everything in between their work is absolutely world class.

    It also helps that I really love people! I think the instinct to organise and take care of people is something you are born with and each and every couple is special to me.

    2020 has been a devastating year for couples and the wedding industry. What do you see for 2021?

    Hopefully the industry will start to ease back into some kind of ‘new normal.’ I still see intimate events playing a huge part in the wedding scene for many months to come but lots of couples are adapting to this and realising you can still have the day of your dreams and maybe splash out on some extra luxuries with just your nearest and dearest in attendance.

    I think intimate weddings followed by a big party or fabulous first anniversary bash will become even more popular and this really excites me – who doesn’t love planning two parties!

    Dale has planned over one hundred weddings and events discreetly and considerately. For the not so discreet, some of Dale’s weddings and events have featured in ok! Magazine.

    “I absolutely adore the events industry, especially seeing the faces of my clients when they see the result of all of our preparation. Many years of planning these special days have taught me how to pick out the very best suppliers and friends, helping to make the planning process seamless, unique and all importantly ~ stress free. Whether it’s a destination wedding or an event closer to home, I will work closely with you to build an event that you have always dreamed of having. Making the process fun, stress free and creative.”

    When Dale is not working as a Luxury Wedding Planner or organising these special events,  you can usually find him in the countryside with his three fur babies; Delaney, Harry & Freya. He also has a strong passion for interior design and everything flowers!

    “Please do say ‘hello’, if you have any questions or would like to discuss your ideas ~ I would love to hear from you and work with you on this exciting and fun journey ahead. x”

    To start your wedding journey, contact Dale and get ready to plan the day of your dreams!

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    DALE ALEXANDER EVENTS

  • Sunshine, Sophie & Show-Stopping Florals…

    Sunshine, Sophie & Show-Stopping Florals…

    After a season on heartbreak, lockdown, lost opportunities and disappointment we decided to grab the few dying days of summer and come back in style…

    As soon as we got the ok from Boris to emerge from lockdown and our talented make-up artists and creatives could get back to doing what they do best, we let our imaginations run wild and planned a stunning summer shoot at one of our favourite locations.

    So on the hottest day of the year (the temperature hit over 35 degrees) we gathered our ‘dream team’ together and made the short drive down to Shropshire for a day filled with flowers, fabulous dresses and lots of fun….

    The Location

    Nestled in an awe-inspiring setting in the heart of the Shropshire countryside, Hawkstone Hall is a truly breath taking venue. Still a relative new-comer to the wedding scene, 2020 should have been the first full season of weddings for the team until the ‘C’ word got in that way.

    A luxurious hideaway with stunning original features, the whole venue is packed full of the most glorious spaces for your big day. From the magnificent ballroom complete with original artwork and incredible décor, to the magnificent chapel and light-filled ‘Winter Garden’ we were spoilt for choice when it came to locations for the shoot.

    In the end, with the sun beating down, we made the most of the magical gardens and based our main shoot in the beautiful Tapestry Room. With its pink hued marble columns and large arch windows looking out over the estate, it provided the perfect backdrop for our blush based theme.

    The Theme

    With a strict brief from our bridal gurus at Bellissima Brides – ‘we want wow’ we started to pull together an epic mood board of ideas to fit in with our rose gold and blush theme. Alongside the magnificent backdrop of Hawkstone, we knew we wanted a world-class installation – enter Mat Hepplestone, the creative genius behind industry leading floral giants, Red Floral and the rest is history!

    Mat understood the brief from the word go and when we saw a sprinter van, packed to the rafters with fresh flowers edge up the drive, we know we were going to see something pretty exceptional.

    The Team

    With their vibrant social media and links across the fashion and styling world, the girls at Bellissima suggested that we work with a leading Instagram influencer on the shoot and so they introduced high-profile MUA and model Sophie Russell to the mix.

    Alongside their selection of dresses and Mat’s stellar floral creations, Sophie not only provided all the make-up for the day, she also became our main, uber glamorous bridal model too.

    We completed our industry leading line-up with the super-talented Suzanne Thorp, cake designer extraordinaire from The Frostery and our wonderful hairdresser on set was the amazing Rebecca Forshaw.

     

     

    We had a range of exquisite accessories with hand-crafted veils and headpieces from Adorn By Ashely, gorgeous bespoke bridal pieces from Bob-Bon Bride and bridesmaid crowns from Evelyn and Rose.

    The gorgeous Robyn Evans and Claudia Platt were our beautiful bridesmaids on the day and the true stars of the show came in the form of the absolutely epic Bride Tribe Photography team.

    Louise Coppello and hubby Alex are not only super-talented photographers they are just about the nicest people to have on set and I can only imagine they would be a wonderful addition to any wedding day.

    We think the wonderful images really ooze class and this is largely down to Louise and Alex’s passion, talent and gorgeous on-set demeanour.

    Get The Look…

    Photography: The Bride Tribe

    Florals:  Red Floral

    Dresses:  Bellissima Brides

    Cake Design:  The Frostery

    Makeup / Influencer:  Sophie Russell

    Hair:  Rebecca Forshaw

    Bridal Model:  Sophie Russell

    Drak Model: Robyn Evans

    Blonde Model: Claudia Platt

    Veil / Headpieces: Adorn By Ashely

    Bridal:  Bon Bon Bride

    Bridesmaid Headpieces: Evelyn & Rose

  • Pretty As A Picture…

    Pretty As A Picture…

    When wedding planning guru Dale Alexander decides to pull together an autumn inspired shoot, you know it’s going to be pretty special….

    Stunning location, check, epic décor, naturally, beautiful models, of course! But this super-creative styled shoot had something most other shoots can only dream of. Say ‘hello’ to the real star of the show, Dale’s very own fur baby, Mr Harry Bobbins!

    Meet Dale

    One of the UK’s most celebrated luxury wedding planners, Dale has planned and delivered some of the most exquisite events both here in the UK and across the globe.

    He has organised over one hundred unforgettable weddings, planning every detail and managing every aspect of the big day personally from start to finish. A true detail fanatic and a gorgeous person to have around on your big day, his aim is to take away the stress, turn your dreams into reality and let you enjoy every second of your big day…..

    A Dreamy Day At Delamere

    As Delamere Manor’s retained Wedding Director, Dale obviously knows this stunning venue more than most so it was an obvious and very beautiful choice of location for the day.

    Set in an awe inspiring position in the heart of the Cheshire countryside, Delamere is one of the region’s most exquisite wedding venues. Its elegant spaces, glorious ground and quirky backdrops help make it one of the most aspirational venues in the North.

    A Super-Squad Of Suppliers

    With his extensive network of suppliers and legendary eye for detail, its hardly surprising that Dale was able to pull together an epic team of super-suppliers to help turn his styling dreams into reality.

    Delamere’s exquisite courtyard space was beautifully enhanced with stunning lighting installations from Luminate Events and epic floral creations from Boujee Box.

    Tables were decked to perfection with elegant crockery and glasses by Whitehouse Crockery and the stylish chairs came courtesy of Chair Man Hire.

    The dreamy stationery and ‘on-the-day’ table plan, menu & name cards was designed by the talented Natalie from Jelly Press.

    The dreamy designer gowns were supplied by acclaimed Cheshire Designer Balthazar By Gary Hayes paired with gorgeous accessories by Cassie M Bridal and the gorgeous groom wore a suit by Groom Formal for the day.

    The super-talented Lizzie Griffiths was in full charge of all hair and make-up looks in keeping with the dreamy Autumn theme and the show-stopping cake came courtesy of the amazing Bloomsbury Cakes.

    The final look was completed with a fun selfie mirror from Exceed Events and on- trend LED backdrops from the guys at Love Lights The Way.

    Picture Perfect

    The whole day was captured beautifully by luxury wedding photographer Livi Edwards, from the magical autumn light shimmering on the lake to the stunning shades of the season across the estate. With Dale overseeing every aspect of the day, we think you can see the joy shining through the images and of course, Mr Harry Bobbins steals the show everytime!

  • How Will The Coronavirus Impact My Wedding…

    How Will The Coronavirus Impact My Wedding…

    We’ve recently updated this feature please scroll to see the latest date and information….

    I have been thinking about writing this piece for a few days now, but didn’t really know where to start…

    All around me, venues, suppliers and of course couples are facing the stark reality of an industry turned upside down due to a situation that no one ever saw coming and can do little to control.

    On a personal level, I have been busy planning my own daughter’s destination wedding in Greece this August and speak to suppliers from across the wedding industry on an hourly basis, so I understand first-hand the immense amount of stress this situation is causing.

    Anxiety, stress and fear is rife and for couples due to say ‘I Do’ in the next few days and weeks their worry-levels must be at breaking point.

    So Where Do We Go From Here?

    That’s it, it’s official, no weddings or public gatherings planned in at least the next three weeks can go ahead.

    We know this must be devastating news for so many of you and our hearts go out to each and every one of you. That said, the government have only taken these measures to flatten the current curve of cases and fatalities and pull us through this crisis sooner rather than later.

    You must try and take some comfort from the fact that postponing your big day will help to save lives and protect your nearest and dearest.

    You are still in love, you need each other more than ever and wow, when we get through this imagine what an amazing celebration you will have!

    What Are Venues Saying?

     We seem to be getting quite a mixed bag of responses from venues.

    Most are being amazing – helping couples to reschedule and trying to eliminate any additional costs. That said, they are still working through the news themselves and are working hard to try and keep their businesses open post crisis so please be as patient as you can.

     

    They must prioritise couples who are due to get married in the next few weeks as obviously, their plans will have to change so if you are due to get married in late May / early summer, you may not be top of their list right now, so sit tight, stay in touch and try and remain positive.

     

    GET IN TOUCH – If you are experiencing frustration with the way your venue is handling your date change, please get in touch as we may be able to help.

    You can email us direct HERE and our team will help as much as we possibly can.

     

    Support Our Suppliers

    Many suppliers are small businesses providing bespoke services so will be massively affected by any cancellations and slowdowns in trade. Be mindful that many of these businesses could face total ruin if they experience high levels of cancellations and so please honour your deposits, even if your dates are shifting and keep planning and booking to help keep these artisan experts afloat.

    Our wedding industry is the best in the world and these hard working caterers, designers, photographers,  florists, planners and bakers really need your support if they are to survive post epidemic.

    Your Destination Wedding

    For many couples, their dream destination weddings are also now hanging in the balance.

    With many airlines cancelling flights and much of Europe on lockdown, many couples will be forced to either postpone or change their plans entirely.

    Our best advice is to speak to your destination wedding planner, venue and suppliers to see where they stand on the current situation.

    So far, it looks as though most destination wedding specialists are working hard to change dates, move deposits and generally do anything they can to help couples safeguard their plans.

    For those of you forced to abandon travel plans altogether, many of our UK venues are putting together special packages for couples affected by the lockdown and offering special rates for dates they still have available here in the UK.

    We are currently reaching out to all our venues so will bring you additional updates on this as soon as we have further details.

    Honeymoon Planning

    If you are still planning your once in a lifetime trip, crack on and if you are due to travel in late spring or summer you will probably be ok.

    Other than that, our advice would be to hold-off on that big booking and look a little closer to home. There are thousands of romantic cottages, lodges and boutique hotels closer to home and at the end of the day it’s just about the two of you spending some precious time together. That epic trip can be put on ice for a little while longer.

    Wedding Insurance

    Many of you will have (very sensibly) taken out wedding insurance to cover major cancellations and supplier issues.

    If you are due to get married in the next few months it would be a good idea to contact your insurers and find out what is covered in relation to Covid-19 right now.

    Our understanding is that as we speak, taking the decision to cancel because you are ‘worried’ about the situation is not covered on most general insurances, so make sure you find out where you stand before you make any rash decisions and read the small print!!

    Most Of All Try Not To Worry

    A wedding should be a magical time filled with excitement and romance. If you are just starting out on your wedding journey – keep going and enjoy it. For those of you with more pressing concerns, talk to your venues and suppliers – they are lovely people with acute worries just like you, so let’s all try and work together to get the best outcome for everyone.

    Useful Links

     Please see links to the latest information and advice on Covid-19 below…

    NHS Advice, Symptoms & Treatment

    Travel Advice: Coronavirus (COVID-19)

    Coronavirus Covid-19 Information for the Public